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Split screen. Left side = Child’s imagination. Right side = Reality.

This isn't just a Western import; it's a survival tactic. Children observe that their parents are no longer the sole gatekeepers of information. Psychologists and experts note that parenting in the digital era can no longer rely on old, one-way patterns. Parents need to be emotionally present, understand the child's digital world, and teach critical thinking, emotional management, and ethics in cyberspace.

Love you, Ma, Pa. Tapi jangan flexing joget dulu, malu lihatnya. 😂

On the opposite end of the spectrum is the trending concept of . As observed by children, this is where parents take a back seat, acting more as observers than drivers. They let the child lead their own activities and only provide support when explicitly asked. Children see this as "cool" because there is no nagging, but they also note a sense of emotional absence. In heterosexual relationships in Indonesia, it is often observed that the ayah (father) becomes the "passenger," with the ibu (mother) remaining the "driver" of the household. While the father is physically present, the child might feel he is lacking in decision-making and emotional engagement.

To counter the dominance of the screen, families need to actively create "green time." The Coordinating Ministry for Human Development and Culture (Kemenko PMK) suggests reducing screen time and increasing interaction with nature. Building liveable and lovable cities with safe parks and public spaces is part of this national strategy. On a micro-level, families can revive rituals like family dinners without phones, board game nights, or weekend outings to reconnect physically and emotionally.